Category: Trust & Marriage
Why Hotwife Books
I’ve been asked quite a bit over the last few months. “Why are you writing about hotwifing?” Well the answer is simple for me. When me and my wife got into the lifestyle there was so much trepidation in both of our heads. My wife thinking “will he still love me?” or “What’s his angle…
Is Hotwifing Cheating, Here’s The Honest Answer
If you’ve spent any time researching the hotwife lifestyle, you’ve probably asked the same question thousands of other people have searched online. Is hotwifing cheating? It’s a fair question. On the surface, a wife having sex with someone outside her marriage can look exactly like an affair. To someone on the outside, the two situations…
How Do You Know If You’re Ready For The Hotwife Lifestyle (And Signs That You’re Not)
How Couples Know They’re Ready for the Hotwife Lifestyle (And the Signs They’re Not) Ok, you’ve talked to your spouse about the Hotwife Lifestyle. The first thing you do is maddening amounts of time spent researching. But are you ready? Or are there signs you may not be? “How do we know if we’re ready?”…
How to Talk to Your Partner About the Hotwife Lifestyle Without Damaging Your Relationship
One of the biggest questions I get and see online is “How do I bring up the hotwife lifestyle to my spouse whether it’s a husband bringing it up to the wife or even the wife bringing it up to her husband. That first step of bringing it up can feel more intimidating than actually…
Managing Jealousy in the Hotwife Lifestyle: What’s Normal and What’s a Red Flag
If you’ve spent any time reading about the hotwife lifestyle or researching what it’s really like to be in a hotwife relationship, you’ve probably noticed something: almost nobody talks honestly about which is jealousy. There’s plenty of content about the excitement, the freedom, and the intimacy that can come from this lifestyle. Jealousy though often…
10 Things Things We Wish We Had Known Before Entering The Hotwife Lifestyle
When my wife and I first began our journey in the hotwife lifestyle, we had so many questions. There is no roadmap, no trusted guide or instruction manual. We constantly looked for believable stories from ordinary couples navigating the experience together. Most of what we found online either sensationalized the lifestyle or focused on fantasy…
Hotwife Myths and Misconceptions: Separating the Stereotype from the Reality
Few corners of consensual non-monogamy attract more misunderstanding than the hotwife lifestyle. Part of that comes from how the term gets used online — often stripped of context and flattened into a single image. Part of it comes from the fact that most people’s only exposure to the dynamic is through hotwife erotica, which, like…
Communication in the Hotwife Lifestyle: The Foundation Every Relationship Needs
Every realistic hotwife story — fiction or otherwise — shares one quiet truth at its core: none of it works without communication. The eroticism, the jealousy, the thrill, the vulnerability — all of it sits on top of a foundation built from conversations that most couples never have to learn how to navigate. If you’re…
