I’ve been asked quite a bit over the last few months. “Why are you writing about hotwifing?” Well the answer is simple for me.
When me and my wife got into the lifestyle there was so much trepidation in both of our heads. My wife thinking “will he still love me?” or “What’s his angle in doing this?” And even though this started as my fantasy years ago I still had thoughts of “What if she likes him better than me?” or “How will I handle jealousy if it arrives?” Your first steps in the lifestyle are the most important you will ever do.
When we began we tried to find everything we could about the lifestyle. Trying to figure out what could be the pitfalls, how to even find someone. Parties or individual meet ups. We found out really quick there is no instruction manual for hotwifing and in the end it’s really what each couple feels. No path is the same as someone else’s path in this lifestyle.
With that said I wanted to write books that let the reader know we’ve have some of the same thoughts as you are having. Though each path is your own most have the same fears, same issues in finding people. Even the ghosting from someone pretending they are a real person on the internet.
I really didn’t write these books for the average person looking for a quick spicy book on the sex of the lifestyle. I wrote them for those in the lifestyle that can relate to the experiences we’ve had. I wrote it for those who are exploring like we did years ago of possibly getting into the lifestyle.
The vast majority of books on this subject write about just the fantasy. And those are great for what they are. Some are really damn hot and honestly some of those that I’ve read we’ve actually worked in as a fantasy explored in our own real life experiences.
I want you to read these books for what they are. Not as a quick read into just fantasy but as something we did not have getting into the hotwife lifestyle ourselves. As long as we’ve been living it there are still those times that thoughts and feelings come up when you least expect it. So read them knowing “you’re not alone in the journey.” And most of all COMMUNICATE those feelings to your spouse as soon as you have them.
Hotwife Chronices: Beginnings is my first book slowly laying out how we got into the lifestyle with our thoughts of every thing from “Is there something wrong with me?” for wanting my wife to have sex with other men. To my wife’s worry about how I would view her after we started. For those who wanted just a quick spicy story I released Hotwife Chronicles: Just Spice-Jason. It’s a story about one of our, shall I say more comical moments in the lifestyle. A story we still tell at parties to this day to friends. And now available for pre-order to be released October 1, Hotwife Chronicles: Exploration that continues our journey of exploring the different feelings as well as my wife’s exploration of things we both never thought she would do. And as always you can visit HotwifeChronicles.com for all the news about what is coming as well as blogs I write about various aspects of the hotwife lifestyle in general.